Ceremony Outlines

Ceremony Outline

Welcoming the guests

 

Opening - introducing the meaning of the day's celebration and your union.

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Just the Two of You - This section is inspired by the conversations we've had prior to the wedding day. Through our meetings I've learned what makes you so special as a couple, how you met, what you love about each other and where you see union taking you.

 

Reading - (your choice). Often a bible verse, line from a poem or song lyrics.

 

Vows 

If you choose to write your own vows (recommended), a common structure is to acknowledge some of the things you love about your partner. These can be funny and/or serious. Then you'd want to make 5-10 promises (vows) to your partner; these can also be funny and/or serious.

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I will then ask each of you separately:

Do you (name), take (name) to be your (husband/wife/partner). To have and to hold, to love and to cherish...

Once done, I'll indicated for you to say, "I do".

 

Rings - I will ask you (one at a time) to place and hold the ring on your partner's finger and have you repeat some simple statements after me acknowledging the symbolism of the rings. 

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Imagery/Symbolism - 

There are many special ways to celebrate your union with symbolism. Here are a few popular ones: 

- Sand Ceremony

- Unity Candle

- Hand Fasting Ceremony

Click here to see several more ideas!

 

Reading - You are welcome to choose any reading you like. I usually use the following but it's entirely up to you:

An Old Irish Blessing

May the road rise up to meet you, may the sun shine warm upon your face, and the rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hands.  

 

Sending Forth - a few words of wisdom to wish you well on your journey together.

 

Pronouncement - I now pronounce you...you may now seal your bond with a kiss.